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My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward http://t.umblr.com/redirect?z=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.psmag.com%2Fnavigation%2Fhealth-and-behavior%2Flovely-wife-psych-ward-95567%2F%23.VLSLRFP5XRI.facebook&t=ZjcyM2JkZjk1NzhhZmViODg1NzRlN2U0NzdhYzRjMmUzZjBiOGE5MSxVbmdsYW9nNg%3D%3D

And now, if I suggest that she to go to bed, she complains that I’m telling her what to do, micromanaging her life. Which makes sense, because I did tell her what to do and micromanaged her life for months at a time. Meanwhile, I’m quick to gripe that she’s not taking care of herself well enough. This dynamic isn’t unique to us—it exists in countless other families who lived through a psychiatric crisis. The onetime caregiver continues to worry. The former (and perhaps future) patient feels trapped by paternalistic patterns.

9 months ago
Tagged: #psychosis #mentalhealth #mentalillness #family #marriage #relationships #medication #therapy
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